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28 August 2008

28 Aug 2008 (Very Angry and Sad)

In the morning as usual went to work. But in the evening, my dad and mom went for cruise, funny is it, just a 2 days 1 night cruise, they also interested. I have to close the shop and then send my wife back. Everyday is the same.



In the evening, something came upon me and I went to the kitchen and started to cook. I did not know what came to me, but feel like cooking a good dinner to treat myself. Have chili prawns and fried rice. It was nice as I get to eat what I like for today, have a bit sian with my mom's cooking.




In the night, planned in the shop that tomorrow will be celebrating teachers' day at my daughter's children centre, so wanted to help my daughter to make some cards for the teachers for their patient and guiding my daugther. So we started to cut the drawing board to cards size and then wrote some greeting on it. I then allowed her to have her creative side as she is having art lesson at Newton. She drew a house and herself which represented that she is at the children care centre. I was happy over it and started to decorate the card, leaving other 3 cards for her to express her creative side and what she had learned from her arts lesson. After 5 minutes, I went to check on her and I was shock. do you know what she drew. Check out the pictures. What did she learn, I spend $120 a month for her to learn drawing and it is what I get. I was very disappointed. i asked her why she drew all this and she told me she did not know why and she had no idea. She got a heavy scolding from me. I did not canned her as it was of no use for it. Then you know what happen, my wife told me off as I was too fierce to my daughter. What is this, money was spend and she did not learned and I was unreasonable about it. I then told my wife that is it right for us to spend the money and my daughter did not learn anything. Should we send her to another talent lesson other than art lesson. She kept quiet, she always like that, keep quiet when she was out of words and make me that worst and wrong husband. Why have done wrong, If i am not going to teach her now, wen she grew up, ask the government to teach her.




I dun want to force my daughter to learn something that she dun like as same as me in young age, i dun like my mom to force me to learn something that i dun like. This is why I dd not force her. But every time when she came back from her art lesson, she show me her work. I wondered if the drawing was drew by her or the teacher have help her to draw to cover up her poor teaching. If my daughter do not have the talent then why force to carry on. 426 apply.


I did not know what to do, wife say I wrong, daughter did not learn anything. Is life that hard for me.

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